As Christian women an issue to consider is that God calls all people to control their thought lives, so as women, we should help our brothers by dressing modestly: "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:27-29). When we dress immodestly, it can lead them to commit the sin of lust, and this is displeasing to God. Please understand that each person is responsible for their own actions. In this instance, women are responsible for dressing modestly. Men are responsible for their thoughts. After all we ARE our brothers keeper.
A further consideration is that our bodies, like our minds and hearts, belong to God and are to be used for His glory, not our own. Romans 12:1 tells us, "Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship." When we offer our bodies to God as “living sacrifices,” we are saying, in effect, “My body is yours, Lord. Use it for your glory.” It’s hard to imagine an immodestly dressed female body being used for God’s glory.
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We know this is an important night for all of you and your attire is important as well. Lets just remember that we are our brothers keeper and we want to do our best to honor God in all that we do, say and wear.
Lets dress with dignity and awareness. Lets try not to allow our need or want for fashion to overcome our sensibilities towards others.
Formal dress website suggestions
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https://www.amazon.com/slp/modest-prom-dress/j29zkeenr2wf3px
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We prefer a crop jacket or cardigan type cover rather than a shaw or wrap. (No shaw or wrap for modesty covering) Again if in doubt to avoid embarrassment at the door please email a picture of you wearing your dress to get final approval. 1teensocialclub@gmail.com
We do NOT want to embarrass or turn anyone away for breaking the dress code so please do not put us in that position.
Female dress code:
If dress is short or tea length it must come to the top of the knees. This does not pertain to sheer material. Sheer material in the dress is fine as long as the solid fabric of the dress covers all pertinent areas. (to the top of the knees)
Shoulders need to be at least 3 inches covered.
No strapless, spaghetti straps or straps less than 3 inches wide.
Front of the dress must not go below 3 inches from collar bone.
No backless or sheer back dresses. (including lace)
No mid drift
Slit in dress must not be any higher than top of knee
NO tennis shoes or casual shoes. dress shoes or sandals only pls
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If in doubt please email a picture of you in your dress to 1teensocialclub@gmail.com
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Male dress code: Gentlemen please wear a matching coat and jacket with dress shoes. White dinner jacket with black slacks ok. Military formals ok. It is a formal event and tie must be worn as well as dress shoes. No tennis shoes or casual shoes. No jeans of any kind.
Jacket required
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Discount options for men's attire:
Check Ebay!
